Most of the times what you give is what you get...
We meet people. Sometimes we connect.. sometimes we don't...
When we do, Its like a freight train. The relationship has a life of its own .. If it is across genders.It is truly amazing..
No thoughts before every word and no analysis after. A momentum which is enjoyable.. It is just so easy and comfortable..
What is this connection how do we find it.. Why is it that sometimes it is there amd on some it is not.
Why is it that 9 out of 10 times, people mention close friends in their own gender as people they connect with amazingly.. And am talking about straight people here..
We as human beings are very sensitive, sensitive to moods, color, light, smells and even temperature. How many times have we stood next to a person and felt their body heat and felt comfortable or uncomfortable.. And these are such subtle inputs.. Even then we react to them...
So if you are a doubting Tom, enjoy playing power games or put people down .. Its never gonna work.. But then these sorry excuses for human beings have no reason to be out looking for a connection...
looking back .. Comfortable, confident, free and easy, interesting.. Now these are the words that come to my mind.
What further complicates a cross gender relationship are the expectations and the lack of acceptance..
Easy come easy go.. Comfortable silences and a calm acceptance..
Life becomes interesting again.
Connections...
Nice.....
Here' to great connections and good friends. Arigato..
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